So what happened was I was drafting the LOCI, they sent an email saying “let us know by Thursday your willingness to attend” and in that LOCI, which was submitted on 4/23, I said I’d attend if accepted. In the email tonight I said I’d attend even if I wasn’t offered a scholarship and that they’re my top choice (yeah I somehow didn’t explicitly say that the first time)
I see. If that's what happened, then I actually retract my previous point that what you did was even so much as sloppy. I don't think this is sloppy at all.
That’s what I worry might be a bit sloppy, but honestly yall saying whatever sloppiness may be there, if any, is outweighed by the benefit of strengthening my level of commitment has helped me a little
Sorry not to TMI I have an anxiety disorder and imma be real I probably need to go get a prescription for medication to help w this before law school but yeah it’s been really really tough mentally this past week and especially today hence the email. So thank you
At least now I know my emotions about “I’ve screwed myself it’s all over” is factually incorrect. Just gotta ride the emotional wave out thank you guys seriously
Has anyone ever said in LOCIs to two or more schools that they would 100% attend if admitted? I imagine it's happened before, but we shouldn't do that because it would be unethical, I take it.
Yeah imma keep telling myself logically I’m okay. My brother just shook me up when I said I wanted to email he said “don’t be an idiot you’re gonna screw yourself and ruin it just wait” but he didn’t even hear me out when I tried to explain why I felt the need to email
@CanWeTalkAboutTerrenceMalick: people unfortunately do it all the time I’ve seen redditors recommend it because “how will the schools know” and then just say whichever takes the bait first make sure you withdraw from the other immediately. But I agree it’s horrible behavior and unethical
KnowledgeableRitzyWasp
23:12
It’s dumb and sometimes but rarely schools talk about applicants and it can screw you
KnowledgeableRitzyWasp
23:13
Maybe it’s just an LSA urban legend but it’s supposed to be a bad idea
It makes me upset seeing people recommend that to others like it looks bad on them sure but it also weakens all statements like that cuz then schools have to figure out if everyone is saying that to every school or serious
The not-dishonest way to say it is "I would immediately accept an offer of admission" (and accept whichever school offers first), but only if you are prepared to do just that without waiting on aid etc.